I am not totally against cohabiting, all I need you to know is that moving in with someone increases your chances of locking in on someone, whether he or she is right for you or not.
Alright, I get it, you live in the same city and by living together you save more because two apartments will definitely cost more.

Oh! another situation, you decide to go visit your man for the weekend but you guys don’t want to be apart so you carry all your bags and move to his place. If this looks like your story, just get married!!

Love is crazy!!

If you are already in this situation or about to get into it, here are a few things you need to know.
Living together before marriage definitely comes with some advantages.
Going from living on your own terms to sharing a place with someone can be simultaneously fun and extraordinarily challenging.

Cohabiting tests your ability to put someone’s needs and tastes above or equal to your own and if you are able this successfully then you guys are compatible.
Cohabiting means more sex oooo! Uchegi dikwia. These days sex is a big deal, you can’t be walking around with his T-shirt and no underwear and you expect him not to want some.
Discuss this part very well.

Just in case things don’t work out, Heartbreak hits differently when you live together. You have to move out and live on your own again and you are so used to him/her.
This is so devastating that I don’t want to imagine it.
So what if things don’t work out, what would you do? He might suffer a “see finish” syndrome and treat you bad, you break up then what?

Please don’t move in before marriage. It is morally incorrect. Visit as often as you can, you see, there is this newness and freshness that comes with visiting.

Let him miss and long for you.

Don’t give him too much sugar. Too much of everything is bad.

Like I always say, One step at a time.

Move-in after he marries you.