When the girl [or man] becomes yours, you may be tempted to rest your oars and relent in both your private and public display of affection towards her; but that’s never the ideal thing to do. If anything, you are supposed to become more adept at showing her you love her.

The best way to go about this is not to always consider grandeur – huge, expensive gifts are not completely ruled out though – but rather, focus on doing those acts of love that have been known to melt hearts. The thought and accuracy of timing is what usually does the trick and if you’re wondering on ways to always let that special woman know that you love her, here are undisputed ways to make that happen always.Happiness and consistence… two things that matter most. [Credit Madamenoire]

1. Thoughtful things

First things first – it is the thought that counts most above every other thing. If you are with a good woman, she understands that the thoughtfulness backing a gesture of lover surpasses the gesture itself.

Now, this is how you should always think when you are hoping to do anything to show your love to your woman. Let it be thoughtful, no matter how little it turns out to be in that period.

Do not forget; it is about the other person, not you. You are showing love to her and if must count, it must touch her deeply. And to always achieve this, thoughtfulness is always needed.

2. Surprise

An element of surprise is absolutely essential in romantic gestures, as opposed to routine.

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If you come across as boring, monotonous and predictable in everything that you do, then you are not being romantic.

But if you keep your partner on her toes by surprising her with your gestures, then your relationship flourishes.Never forget; it is always about the other person, not you.(Credit – iStock)

3. Not mainstream

Of course, birthdays and anniversaries and valentines are all meant to be treated special. However, you can’t always do regular stuff. You can’t always do mainstream romance.

If your gestures happen because you decide to make them happen and not because the calendar suggests them to you, then it’d be that much more powerful.

Taking the initiative in your love life will always be appreciated.