We are in this forever….

It is not easy to be in a long-distance relationship, you can’t escape lonely days when all you need is to be in his arms to be okay again. You look around and he/she is not there, he is not even in the same state or country.

Emotionally, it is draining which is why most long distance relationships fade away.it requires an extraordinary amount of trust and dedication for a long distance relationship to survive.

Here’s a few things that will keep you close no matter the distance.

Send romantic massages every morning.

I am actually in this situation right now and I make sure he wakes up to my massage, something as simple as “Good morning handsome, arise and shine” will do. Let your partner know you are thinking about him/her.

Discuss how your day went.

Exactly like you would if your partner is with you. Seek advice before making decisions on daily bases. If you plan to spend the rest of your life with someone, be open to them, its part of knowing

Send beautiful pictures on a daily bases

Ladies, this one is for you; you never know the kind of women he meets at the office, church or just anywhere. Sending pictures every day will keep your image and memories in his head and it will also remind him of how beautiful you are

Make every visit memorable.

You don’t get to see each other every day so when you do, give it your best shot. Channel the Cleo Patra in you, not just in bed but in good meals, date nights, massage, romance. I could go and on. Look your best for him or her, guys get to the barbing salon, shave down there. Ladies keep “everywhere” clean.

Keep him/her longing for the next visit.

Send short Videos.

This one in particular works. Make short videos of yourself fooling around, cooking, or dressing up. It makes you feel like your partner is right there. Distance suddenly becomes nothing.

Long-distance relationships can be fun, get creative, “absence makes the heart grow fonder” it will be all worth it at the end of the day.